The Importance of You...
- Janora Hicks

- Sep 29
- 2 min read

Being a writer and coach has brought me a profound understanding of my identity and has allowed me to embrace my true self fully. This journey of self-discovery has not only been enlightening but also incredibly liberating. It has become clear to me that attempting to mold myself into someone else’s image or trying to live up to external expectations simply does not yield positive results.
Instead, it often leads to feelings of frustration and inadequacy, which can hinder personal growth and creativity. Over time, I have come to realize that the most authentic version of myself is the one I should celebrate and nurture. This acceptance is not just a passive acknowledgment; it is an active process of recognizing my strengths, weaknesses, quirks, and passions. I have learned to appreciate the unique qualities that make me who I am, understanding that these attributes are what contribute to my voice as a writer and my effectiveness as a coach.
Through writing, I have found an outlet to express my thoughts and feelings, allowing me to explore my inner world deeply. Each word penned down serves as a step towards self-acceptance, reinforcing the idea that my experiences and perspectives are valid and worthy of being shared. In coaching, I have the privilege of guiding others on their paths, and in doing so, I often reflect on my own journey, reinforcing my self-love and acceptance. This journey has led me to a powerful realization: I genuinely love who I am.
This love is not contingent upon societal standards or the approval of others; rather, it is rooted in a deep appreciation for my individuality and the unique contributions I can make to the world. Embracing my authentic self has opened doors to creativity, connection, and a fulfilling life that resonates with my true essence.




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